THE school of
Disruptive Etiquette

Who We Are

The School of Disruptive Etiquette (SDE) provides customized career development classes, coaching, conversation, and community for diverse young professionals.

We teach rising leaders how to increase their confidence and accelerate their career through soft skills, executive presence, authentic confidence, and organic relationships. 

The SDE offers specialized classes and coaching on the following topics:

Etiquette and Professionalism 
Executive Presence and Confidence
Networking and Relationship Building
Navigating Workplace Cultures
Personal Branding
Image, Attire, and Grooming
Public Speaking and Presentation Skills
Interview Preparation and Mock Interviews

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How to Enroll in The SDE

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*Classes have limited seats - sign up quickly to reserve your place this upcoming Semester! 

As a student enrolled in the School of Disruptive Etiquette (SDE), you get:

  • Unlimited access to classes, electives, and community conversations
  • Access to the School Library, a growing repository of career development resources 
  • Discounted one-to-one career coaching, mock interviews/interview prep, salary negotiation practice, public speaking practice, and coaching 
  • Discounts to the School Bookstore, SDE merchandise and the Disruptive Clothing store
  • And more!

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Check your email for instructions on how to access the school portal and other next steps. 


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Salary Negotiation

September 15 - November 15
Live, virtual classes led by professors, coaches, and expert facilitators.
Each class includes one 90-minute core class, and one 60-minute Q&A
(Question and Application) Session. 

Fall Semester Classes

Building Authentic Relationships

Public Speaking through Spoken Word

The Key to Professional Confidence 

Map Your Career

Optimize Your LinkedIn

Resumes Made Easy

Charismatic Public Speaking

Building Wealth:
Money Fundamentals

Sharpen Your Image +
Step Up Your Wardrobe

Telling Your Story

Building Your Brand

Finding Your Purpose

Speak Up: Don't Shrink

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We provide a protected place where diverse young adults can learn how to succeed in their career without being shamed for not knowing - our students can express themselves and be vulnerable with no filter, no blanketed answers, no awkwardness, no embarrassment.  

A Career Development School Unlike Any Other

- kristen
individual coaching

I found coaching at the perfect time . . . I received a promotion, transitioned to a new role, pay raise, exemplary performance review, and speaking engagements.

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- Gaetan
Career Mapping and Professional Portfolio

I received 3 competing job offers in one week. Tomorrow, I will accept a consulting role that will provide me with a 50% total salary increase. I believe the work with Toni’s program and in other endeavors will change lives. I know it did for me!

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Coaching and support helped me to land a better job, and negotiate a 73% salary increase.
I gained more confidence in my personal elevator pitch, tools/strategy to navigate the workforce/salary negotiations, and a better understanding of online branding.

- Rachel
Networking and Negotiating

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Etiquette that Empowers

Disruptive Etiquette is a 21st century etiquette movement that seeks to reintroduce etiquette in a way that is fun and fresh, relevant and radical, and approachable and applicable for Millennials, Gen Z, and the young at heart.

the disruptive etiquette movement

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1. A young professional who has an allergic reaction to what is average; vehemently refuses to accept the status quo, and does not settle for mediocrity.

2. A person who is ill-fitted, different; challenges conventional thinking and does not conform; likes to color outside the lines and think outside the box. 

our definition:


mis·​fit | \ ˈmis-ˌfit alsoˌ mis-ˈfit \\ 

home of the professional misfits

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The Career Confidence Incub8tor provides you the tools, coaching, and support to increase your confidence, so you can get the promotion, job position, or pay raise you want, and land the leadership roles you deserve.

Career Confidence Incub8tor

- Luis
Etiquette and Executive Presence

Through scheduled coaching sessions and the exercises and readings, I found myself becoming more and more confident.. . . I secure(d) a Corporate Finance role in a Fortune 50 firm in New York City, in addition to gaining admission into one of the most prestigious international affairs master’s programs in the country.

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Coaching ingrained a growth mindset among all of us in the small coaching group, and led us on a journey of self-discovery, reflection, and elevation. I was able to gain confidence in knowing that I am worthy . . .

- jhalin
communication and confidence

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- India
Authenticity and Advocacy

I have increased confidence and self-worth. The self advocacy I have demonstrated this past year has been acknowledged as maturity and leadership by peers and managers. I am regularly exceeding expectations in my performance reviews . . .

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